Secret Slut Society

This site is new. Most of what I'd like to post isn't up here yet (Dec '24).

What is this place?

A personal journal and reference. There's a lot going on; not even we can keep it all in the brain.

This is a place where we can just be free and open, and that means sometimes/often touching on parts of our life that can be triggering for some people, or are are otherwise deemed "socially unacceptable". There is mention of sexuality, but any descriptions (general or specific) will be behind nsfw tags. Likewise, I've tried to mark any mental health discussions, though since triggers can be very individualized and I'm no professional, we are likely to miss some.

We are plural — multiple people in a single body. In general, we are asexual, panromantic, transgender, feminine-aligned non-binary, and variously kinky. We are autistic, ADHD (inattentive), and have CPTSD. We are physicalist — every observable phenomenon has in principle a natural explanation — but also we strive to see and respect the spirits in every aspect of the universe. We wish workers had collective decision making power at the workplace instead of being ruled by a monarch bossed around by a CEO — which makes us communist or something? We strongly value truth, clear and open communication, consent in all things, vulnerability and compassion, and that everyone should be able to enjoy their life fully. We enjoy the foundations of math/logic/computation (they're all the same thing down there), organizing things to function smoothly, tai chi, fountain pens, the outdoors. We want to grow from being a survivor to being an advocate and maybe even a hero.

TODO: myour use of pronouns for meus
TODO: what kink means to us
TODO: our system-internal relationships
TODO: how we experience plurality
TODO: how we trans our shared body, even for the non-humans
TODO: split attraction model, and asexual kink
TODO: the subjectivity of trauma, and how we've been faced with outsized results
TODO: nobody noticed our neurodivergence (or other things, and we had no edication about mental health or sex or any of that)